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The Wedding Of

Shai & Sonya

December 23rd, 2026

Molenvliet Wine & Guest Estate · Stellenbosch, South Africa

Cape Town, South Africa · 33.9249° S, 18.4241° E

Welcome To Cape Town

Where the mountains meet the ocean — and where we cannot wait to celebrate with you.

Days
Hours
Minutes
Seconds

until we say “I do” beneath the Drakenstein mountains

December 22nd & 23rd

Event Details

Everything you need for the big day.

December 23rd

Wedding Day Schedule

Molenvliet Wine & Guest Estate
Old Banhoek Road, Helshoogte Pass, Stellenbosch, Cape Town, 7612, South Africa

5:00 PM
Guest Arrival
5:30 - 6:15 PM
Ceremony
6:15 - 8:00 PM
Cocktail Hour
8:00 - 8:30 PM
Horas
8:30 - 9:30 PM
Dinner
9:30 PM - Midnight
Dancing
Midnight - 12:30 AM
Late Night Snack
12:30 - 4:00 AM
Rave

Dress Code: Summer formal! Floor-length dresses for the women, breathable suits for the men - ties optional. Flowy, breathable fabrics. Shoes that are okay on grass and are made for many hours of dancing

Chapter By Chapter

Our Love Story

Somewhere between two continents, two cities, and two very different accents, our story began.

Young Shai in Cape Town and young Sonya in New York

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I · Two Worlds

An Ocean Apart

Shai grew up under the bright South African sun, where life moves a little slower, family dinners stretch late into the evening, and the mountains meet the ocean in Cape Town.

Sonya grew up in New York, in a Russian Jewish household where toasts and caviar filled every celebration. Their worlds could not have been farther apart geographically, but they were built on remarkably similar foundations: close families, deep Jewish roots, and a shared belief that life is meant to be lived fully — and with the people you love most.

The first date in New York

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II · The Swipe

A Small, Ordinary Moment

Like many modern love stories, it started with a swipe. Shai and Sonya met on Hinge in New York — one of those small, seemingly ordinary moments that quietly changes everything.

What began as curiosity quickly turned into something deeper. There was an easy familiarity between them from the start, as if they had somehow known each other long before that first date.

Adventures in Cartagena

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III · Cartagena

The First Test

Perhaps the first true test of their relationship came far too early — an ambitious trip to Cartagena together. Most couples wait before traveling across the world together. Shai and Sonya did not.

It was spontaneous, a little chaotic, and exactly the kind of adventure that revealed what they were building: a partnership full of laughter, curiosity, and the shared confidence that wherever they went, they would figure it out together.

Lake house weekends and New York life

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IV · New York

Two Lives, One Home

Back in New York, the relationship deepened. Weekends filled with lake house swims, late dinners, and conversations about everything from family traditions to the future they hoped to build.

Before long, they decided to take the next step and move in together, turning two lives into one shared home.

Sonya's first trip to Cape Town

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V · Cape Town

A Second World

But Cape Town — Shai's home — was always waiting in the background of their story.

Their first trip there together felt like Sonya discovering a second world: vineyards stretching toward the mountains, warm summer evenings, and the kind of beauty that makes time slow down. It was a place that quickly became theirs as much as it was his.

The proposal

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VI · The Question

And Then Came the Second Trip

Cape Town has a way of making important moments feel inevitable. Somewhere between the mountains, the ocean, and the vineyards, Shai asked Sonya to marry him.

It was not just a proposal — it was the beginning of a new chapter, one that would weave together South Africa, New York, Russia, family, tradition, and a lifetime of adventures still to come.

The Moment

When She Said Yes

Press play — we caught it all on film.

Spoiler: she said yes.

Getting There

Travel

Everything you need to plan your journey to the southern tip of Africa.

FlightGetting In

We recommend flying into Cape Town International Airport (CPT), or alternatively connecting via Johannesburg O.R. Tambo International (JNB) and taking the short two-hour domestic hop down to Cape Town.

Direct international routes into Cape Town include flights from New York (United & Delta), London, Amsterdam, Frankfurt, Paris, Istanbul, Doha and Dubai. If you connect through Johannesburg, domestic carriers FlySafair, LIFT and Airlink run flights to Cape Town roughly every hour.

Tip: December is peak season in Cape Town — book flights as early as you can.

The SettingOur Venue

We're getting married at Molenvliet Wine & Guest Estate, tucked into the Banhoek Valley just outside Stellenbosch — a few minutes from the Kylemore neighbourhood, framed by vineyards and the Groot Drakenstein and Simonsberg mountains.

Both the ceremony and reception will take place on the estate, among the vines. Molenvliet is a working wine farm as well as a guest estate, so expect long tables, golden-hour light over the mountains, and excellent local wine.

Molenvliet Wine & Guest Estate

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House or RentalWhere to Stay — Near the Venue

If you'd like to stay right in the winelands, close to Molenvliet, here are options in and around the Banhoek Valley and greater Stellenbosch. We'll be running a drop-off shuttle at set intervals between the venue and nearby hotels towards the end of the wedding — just let us know where you're staying on your RSVP so we can plan the route around you.

House or RentalWhere to Stay — Cape Town

We recommend booking a hotel or Airbnb in one of the following areas along the Atlantic Seaboard. Shuttles to and from the wedding will be provided from central Cape Town.

Sea PointBantry BayCliftonV&A WaterfrontMouille PointCamps Bay

New to the area? The Expedia Cape Town travel guide is a good overview of neighbourhoods and things to do.

Travel NoteFill Out Your Travel

Travelling from abroad? Head to the RSVP page and fill out the travel section - your arrival & departure dates, what you'd like to do while you're here, and whether you need shuttles. It goes straight into our planning, so we can help put together your stay - safaris, the Garden Route, winelands days, and everything in between.

Go To RSVP →

Everything You Need To Know

Questions & Answers

When is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP by October 10th, so we can have an accurate headcount :) Formal invite to come.
What will the weather be like?
Welcome to Cape Town! Yes, it will be summer down in South Africa. During the day the weather should be beautiful, but it will get chilly at night. Please bring some warm layers for the evening! In late December, Cape Town averages warm daytime highs around 24°C to 26°C (75°F to 79°F) and overnight lows near 15°C (59°F), though hot days can occasionally reach 30°C (86°F) or higher.
What should I wear?
The attire for our wedding is summer formal! Floor-length dresses for the women, breathable suits for the men - ties optional. Flowy, breathable fabrics. Shoes that are okay on grass and are made for many hours of dancing
Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
Our wedding will be both outdoors & indoors!
Is there transportation between the reception and hotels?
Yes! We will be providing shuttles to and from central Cape Town, as well as a shuttle to and from nearby hotels in Stellenbosch, on the day of our wedding. If you choose to stay elsewhere in the wine country, Ubers or hotel transport should be organised on your own. Please fill out your travel requirements in the RSVP so we can plan the shuttles accordingly!
Should we rent a car?
We'd actually recommend it! Driving on the other side of the road isn't as hard as it sounds, and having your own car makes it easy to string together the beaches, drives, and restaurants on our Cape Town Recs list on your own schedule. See that tab for more of our favorite spots.
I am coming from out of town. Where should I stay?

Where you stay will depend on your preferences and the length of your trip. If you have a few extra days, consider staying near the venue in the beautiful Cape Winelands to explore the vineyards and Stellenbosch. Visit the Travel tab for hotel recommendations and our guide to the area.

For a shorter stay, central Cape Town may be more convenient, with easy access to the city's beaches, restaurants, and attractions. Visit Cape Town Recs for our favorite local recommendations.

I have a question not answered here; how do I contact you?
Feel free to reach us over text or by email at shaiandsonya@gmail.com.

Local Favorites

Cape Town Recs & Safety

Our favorite spots around the city, plus a few house rules to travel like a local.

Rent a car if you can - driving on the other side of the road isn't as hard as it sounds, and having your own wheels makes it easy to string together beaches, drives, and dinners on your own schedule.

Book ahead - Cape Town's best restaurants and experiences fill up fast over the December holidays. We'd recommend making reservations about two months out.

Eat & Drink

Food & Drink

Kleinsky's

Sea Point deli, our pick for breakfast & bagels.

Jarred's

Another great option for breakfast & brunch.

Villa 47

Dinner in town.

The Pot Luck Club

Small plates and a rooftop view over Woodstock - great for dinner.

Kloof Street House

A Victorian house turned restaurant & garden bar - lovely for dinner.

YU Asian

Pan-Asian dinner spot with a fun atmosphere.

Mariner's Wharf

Hout Bay harbour classic for fresh seafood.

La Colombe

Constantia fine dining - arguably the fanciest meal in Africa, about $150/person.

The Duchess of Wisbeach

Dress up and go for a lively party dinner.

NV80 Steakhouse

Solid pick if you're after a proper steak.

Only Fools

Sea Point spot known for its burgers.

Tintswalo Atlantic

A splurge-worthy dinner (or stay) right on the water.

Coffee & Markets

Coffee & Markets

Mischu Coffee

One of our favorite coffee stops in the city.

Oranjezicht City Farm Market

Saturday morning market at the Waterfront - food stalls, produce, live music.

V&A Waterfront

The go-to for shopping, with harbour views thrown in.

Sundowners

Sunset & Cocktails

Café Caprice

The classic Camps Bay sundowner spot.

Cause & Effect

Cocktail bar worth a stop on a night out.

The Grand Café

Sundowners on the beach - the pizza is great too.

Get In The Car

Scenic Drives

Chapman's Peak Drive

One of the most spectacular coastal drives in the world.

Kalk Bay

Colourful harbour village - great for a slow drive and a browse.

Constantia

Wine valley drive, with a zip-lining option if you're up for it.

Sun & Sand

Beaches & Ocean

Clifton 2nd

The trendy beach - young professionals, good people-watching.

Clifton 4th

A more family-friendly stretch of Clifton, sheltered and calm.

Llandudno

Quieter, low-key beach tucked between the mountains.

Bakoven

Small, laid-back beach just past Camps Bay.

Saunders Rock

Tidal pool - great for a cold plunge.

Boulders Beach

Come face-to-face with a colony of African penguins.

Get Outside

Activities & Outdoors

Lion's Head

The must-do sunrise or sunset hike, right in the city.

Table Mountain

Hike up if you're physically inclined, or take the cable car.

Kirstenbosch Gardens

World-class botanical gardens at the foot of the mountain.

Cape of Good Hope

The dramatic southwestern tip of the peninsula.

Twelve Apostles Hotel Spa

Treat yourself to a spa day with ocean views.

Franschhoek Wine Tram

Hop-on-hop-off wine tasting through Stellenbosch & Franschhoek.

Winelands

Near The Venue

A few favorites - and a few more worth considering - in Stellenbosch & Franschhoek, close to Molenvliet.

Winelands

More In Franschhoek & Stellenbosch

Babylonstoren

Wine farm & gardens - worth the whole afternoon.

Fat Butcher

Reliable steakhouse near the venue.

Delaire Graff Estate

Lunch at Hoseki, their Japanese restaurant, with vineyard views.

Boschendal

Historic wine farm with picnics on the lawn.

Tokara

Wine tasting and a restaurant with panoramic views over the valley.

Grande Provence

Franschhoek wine farm with an art gallery on site.

Rust en Vrede

One of South Africa's most celebrated tasting menus.

Jordan Wine Estate

Wine tasting and a restaurant with sweeping valley views.

Waterkloof

Striking glass-walled tasting room overlooking False Bay.

Local Wisdom

A Few House Rules

Cape Town is a wonderful city, and like any big city it rewards a little street-smartness. A few house rules from your local host:

01

Uber Black, always

Always take Uber Blacks. Nothing else.

02

Skip the airport taxis

Do not take taxis at the airport - always order an Uber Black instead.

03

Check the plates

When Ubering, double- and even triple-check the number plate matches your app before getting in.

04

Keep walking

If someone approaches you on the road to sell or beg, don't make eye contact and don't say "no thank you" or "sorry" - just walk past and ignore them. It's not rude.

05

Phones off the table

Don't leave your phone on the table at restaurants and cafés.

06

Stick together after dark

Avoid walking alone at night.

07

No beach on the 25th & 26th

Skip the beaches on December 25th and 26th - they get extremely crowded over the public holidays.

08

Stay seaside, not city centre

Avoid staying in the town centre - stick to the Atlantic Seaboard areas listed on the Travel tab.

With Love

Registry

Your presence is our present

Truly - having you fly across the world to celebrate with us is the greatest gift. But for those who have asked, we've put together a registry on Zola.

View Our Zola Registry

And if you'd ever like to send something our way, we're so grateful - here's our address:

Name: Shai & Sonya
Address Line 1: 421 Hudson Street
Address Line 2: Apartment 801
City: New York
State: New York
Zip Code: 10014
Country: United States

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